Minister ; MRS BLESSING Macellinus
TOPIC; Waiting And Winning With God For The Best In Marriage:
Bible Text; : Gen 2:18-25 : Jer29:11
Good day house
I really commend d work done by d speaker yesterday on the relationship and health talk and today I’ll just buttress more as the spirit leads
Talking about the best in marriage !! What is it? The bible is our compass that directs us as believers not just so called “Christians”
God instituted marriage. So, He knows the blue print and operational manuals all we have to do is to just follo: I say just follow
Since we don’t know the middle not to talk of end so*:; JUST FOLLOW!!! Genesis 2:18-25 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof.
And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.
And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.
Waiting patiently is what this era of singles are missing since everything we need we get it sharp sharp also in marriage people still want sharp sharp : Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. Instantly: Even miracles as well which ought not to be
Them say Gods time is the best y do we now decide for God when its now pertaining to marriage: The lifestyle of the world have in one way or the other creep into the lives of Christians what a pity
: Heb10:35,36,: Ps27;14:
There are many verses of the scriptures that admonishes u to wait: It u r impatient u r like to rush out: Even those that are already in it are still looking unto God as dia compass how much more u that have not even started : I move forward
While waiting u are watching
Abu no be so ? :
Hebrews 10:35-36 Cast not away therefore your confidence, which hath great recompence of reward.
For ye have need of patience, that, after ye have done the will of God, ye might receive the promise. Thank u my bible bearer????
: While Waiting Avoid
1; Ungodly Counselors;
You will get series if counsel but u gat to b watchful, check them with scriptures and if not in correlation abscond biko: Another one is
2;Uncontrolled Body Desires
1corin9:25-27: It is normal to have des desires, Yes it is normal…When God created human beings, He declared that His work of creation was good. So, all our natural bodily desires including body emotions, food, sleep, sex friendship are good
: 1 Corinthians 9:25-27 and every man that strives for the mastery is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a corruptible crown; but we an incorruptible.
I therefore so run, not as uncertainly; so fight I, not as one that beateth the air:
But I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection: lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway: But Adam and eve lost it when they gave heed to flesh
3 ; Don’t Seek To Gratify Your Flesh ;
Even when you have the urge as a single spiritual brother: I rest my case on that point…He that hath ear let him hear what the sprit says to the Church
4; , uncontrolled imaginations and thoughts
Prov 24:30-34,6:18: AMP:I went by the field of the lazy man, and by the vineyard of the man void of understanding;31AMP:And, behold, it was all grown over with thorns, and nettles were covering its face, and its stone wall was broken down.32AMP:Then I beheld and considered it well; I looked and received instruction.33AMP:Yet a little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to sleep—34AMP:So shall your poverty come as a robber, and your want as an armed man: Prov 6 : 18-AMP:A heart that manufactures wicked thoughts and plans, feet that are swift in running to evil,
The minds of humans are always active and Satan knows this so he looks for every way to drop thoughts in your mind. These ungodly thoughts develop into ungodly imaginations and over time result in ungodly actions
Satan uses depressive thoughts to make u discouraged and give up waiting on God: I.e the sister is not even looking at my side so while waste my time on what is not waiting for me or what I’m not sure of …..Beware.: The next point
5 : Ungodly marriage proposals;
2corin 6:14-18,: Josh 23:12,13
: Joshua 23:12-13 Else if ye do in any wise go back, and cleave unto the remnant of these nations, even these that remain among you, and shall make marriages with them, and go in unto them, and they to you:Know for a certainty that the LORD your God will no more drive out any of these nations from before you; but they shall be snares and traps unto you, and scourges in your sides, and thorns in your eyes, until ye perish from off this good land which the LORD your God hath given you.
Don’t be in a hurry to accept proposals sisters because it’s this period of waiting that Satan will stir up men to offer u ungodly marriage proposals. Like the speaker said yesterday, Don’t say time is going, I am getting older .!!!
Another insight is this
6;Do not have an idol in your heart ;
You so much cherish d sister and maybe because of her u go to DAT area where she resides or maybe church ,you just want to be around her and the sis self no sharp to notice; Let me now ask if you pray at that time who do u think u will see ? Who is likely to be seen in the dreams???After everything u will now say God led you to her .
: Lastly on that point
7;Avoid Lack of an intimate relationship with God;
: John 10:7-14, 2Tim 2:19
: The further u are from God,the more difficult it will be for u to hear from or be led by Him on whom to marry: John 10:7-14, 2Tim 2:19,The further u are from God,the more difficult it will be for u to hear from or be led by Him on whom to marry: At this time that u are not yet attached y not serve God with the whole of your being Be sincere with yourself .A time will come when you will have to share your time Read carefully 1corin 7:32-34: At this time that u are not yet attached why not serve 1 Corinthians 7:32-35 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband’s.And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
As a sister or a brother u can go back to God in d cause of ur marriage and remind him of how He instructed u on the marriage. But if u just jump and bypass God how is that possible : It really takes a lot of patience my brethren: During courtship as well pls be guided, Don’t let the devil in your emotions please, Its natural, Its normal. But don’t give chance to the devil,:
I think I can put my pen down now: Let me add my age mate is getting married so I need to buckle up…..you can only buckle up by intensifying ur prayers: While waiting u can pray your way through d marriage
: Commit Every Aspects Into Gods Hands
Pull down every Jericho wall that might show up in marriage while waiting don’t say it can’t happen …What if it happens: Though I don’t know how to pray but I can still remember one time I prayed on campus and sometimes my mind flashes back to the prayer that God answered it: When u see an habit in d life of your partner (those in courtship) you can discuss it and destroy the habit through prayer
Not Even Joint Prayer Now
Single handedly pray through on it and you will see how prayer works like magic: When u see or imagine any tendency u can use d power of prayer to bring it to normalcy: Waiting period is not a time to b showing off but a time to prepare yourself: As a brother u can learn to cook so that u can give your wife a surprise dish: U don’t need to showoff
Just come back from work one day before she comes or even if she is at home, tell her to just sit and watch , I bet u it will keep on ringing in her memory (your van lason) teach her delicacies
As a sister u don’t need to take ur girl child to d saloon always y don’t u try that style yourself How would you if you don’t even learn it at this time
Mummy mummy I want puff puff and u cannot use 300# to buy all d whole ingredients and prepare delicious puff and even keep the remaining ingredients for another time…Being modest is not something u meaning: sorry: bible bearer interpret that thing ooo:
[5/9, 1:56 pm] o.i.joshua: ok ,
this is it ,*i paid a church fellow a visit , it was a big compound* , *in the morning as at 9;30;00am*
a food seller walked into the passage and shouted to inform those living there that’s she is around and that they can come to buy food
truly i was disgusted ,and ashamed of the men in that compound, they still buy food early in the morning my question is
how do they run the home
what is the wife’s of such home doing
why will someone from someone else come to your house to tell your wife that she is done with her assignment as a women .and then you eat from that women that morning and not your wife … the thing weak me that day ooooo
Being modest is not something u find yourself in its what u have built yourself to be: Imagine a whole graduate ordinary simple mathematics for basic 5 u will b looking for one uncle or aunty to teach your child????: Sisters take care of yourself to avoid one bro not to be looking at u as if u carry the whole burden of Nigeria on your head
The brother seff no go wan carry excessive responsibility: Brother that cannot wash his clothes by himself how would he help his pregnant wife
: Story story
I was coming back from work on a Friday and was already thinking of where to start from to wash all d used clothes from Monday till weekend only for me to get into the compound lo and behold my husband washed every thing and I just parked them inside`Ma
[5/9, 2:11 PM] MERCY: Father Lord we thank you for this great teachings.The grace we need , strength to be who you want us to be so has to have a Godly home you will grant unto us……And all those things that need to be dealt with father please go ahead and do it.Bless our Speaker’s.Amen
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